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Are We Tired of "Maxxing" Everything Yet? Here's Why It Might Be Time to Do Less

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It looks like 2026 will be the Year of the Maxx, with everyone seeking to give 110% on every aspect of their lives. (And yes, I'll admit to jumping on the bandwagon with bookmaxxing, my attempt to read or listen to more than 100 books this year—in addition to all the health and fitness stuff that everyone else seems to be stacking into their schedules.)

In theory, this sounds great—because who doesn't want to do their very best whenever they possibly can? And you can't exactly fault the intent behind it, as maxxing is generally used for virtuous habits and self-improvement, like eating healthier, sleeping better, and optimizing your workouts.
But as someone who's tried to maxx out her morning routine (follow up a good night's sleep with hydration, a brisk walk while listening to a book, a healthy breakfast, a strength workout, and a shower-and-moisturize routine, if you're asking), I can say that it's often exhausting. I feel like I've failed when I miss just one aspect of my morning maxx—and even worse when I bag it entirely to cozy up in bed on a rainy day.
That feeling of failure is definitely not surprising—and we're basically setting ourselves up for that when we're maxxing out everything in sight. "When you try to optimize literally everything, life starts to feel like a checklist you can never finish," says Sanam Hafeez, PhD, neuropsychologist and director of Comprehend the Mind. "The goalposts always move, so there's no moment where you actually feel 'good enough.'"
If you're in that constant state of disappointment with yourself, it's a very slippery slope into anxiety and burnout. "You can lose your personality in it, becoming so focused on self-improvement that you forget to just live," Hafeez says.
And while you might be trying to improve your health, going to extremes could actually do damage, says Leigh Hall, LMFT, therapist and Perinatal Mental Health Center of Excellence Lead at Octave Therapy. "'Maxxing' is absolutely a form of perfectionism, and when it is applied to physical appearance, diet, and exercise, it could potentially lead to a serious disorder like body dysmorphia or disordered eating. Overtraining can cause injury, and taking too many supplements can harm your liver or kidneys."
So if you're maxxed out on maxxing out, it may be time for some intervention-maxxing. (I know I definitely need it!) Here's how to make sure you're maxxing out your life and happiness—not your stress.

1. Start small

That means dialing it waaaaay back down from 11. "Pick one or two areas that genuinely matter to you and pour your energy there, rather than trying to overhaul everything at once," Hafeez says. "Small, consistent changes beat dramatic overhauls every time. A 1% improvement daily is sustainable; a complete lifestyle reinvention usually isn't."

One new habit is much easier to follow successfully than a half dozen, so once you have that first one (like a morning walk) ingrained in your schedule, you can add one more habit to your routine.

2. Make sure these new habits are really working for you

It may sound like a great idea to wake up at 5 a.m. for sunrise yoga, but pretty quickly, the bloom could be off that rose. Check in with yourself every month or so to make sure the new habits are doing what you'd intended and actually making your life better. "The goal should be to feel good in your body and your life, not to hit some perfect standard that keeps shifting every time you get close," Hafeez says. If it isn't improving your life in some way, it may be time to let it go. (And yes, quitting can be healthy!)

3. Give yourself a break

As someone who feels the pressure to "close the rings" and meet all my fitness goals every day, this can be a hard sell, but Hafeez says it's key to keeping up with your routine. "Schedule off time where self-improvement is completely off the table, whether that's a Sunday, an evening, or even just an hour," she says. Planning a day off into your schedule gives you some breathing room and makes you feel less guilty when you bag the workout on a busy day.

And basically, if you don't give yourself that grace, your body will take it the hard way. "At some point your mind and body will force you to stop, and that crash is usually a lot harder than if you'd just given yourself a break sooner," Hafeez warns.

4. Work in a "fun" maxx

My morning routine definitely makes me feel virtuous (and well-moisturized!), but it's not exactly bringing that joie de vivre. If your routine doesn't spark joy, it may be time to delve down the rabbit hole of fun maxxes, like cozymaxxing (which features happiness-inducing activities like potato bedding and eating chocolate), or Nonnamaxxing (aka living like an Italian grandmother), which seems to involve overindulging in time with loved ones and pasta, both of which I'm definitely down for. 

5. Curate your social media feed

Maxxing culture is getting pretty wild out there. "The more extreme content is, the more likely it is to get hits, so it’s not enough to just eat more lean protein, for example—you have to 'protein-maxx,'" Hall says. "Social media creators use filters and lighting to manipulate their appearance, but when you’re constantly subjected to these images, it can be hard to remember just how removed from reality they actually are. And now we have AI-generated 'influencers'—80-year-old women with six-pack abs!—further testing the limits of our critical thinking skills. Don’t believe everything that you see!"

Hall recommends checking the credentials of people before you follow their health advice—and take anything you read with a grain of salt.
Edit your feed to remove accounts that make you feel bad or seem to set unreasonable goals. "Unfollow or mute accounts that make you feel behind, broken, or like a project that needs fixing," Hafeez says. "Seek out creators who talk about progress and balance rather than ones pushing an impossible, never-ending standard."
(And hey, analog maxxing is a thing—so go ahead and stop doomscrolling while you're at it!)

This article appeared in Real Simple (https://www.realsimple.com/are-we-tired-of-maxxing-everything-11961728).
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